What are the universal rules for an orgy?

What are the universal rules for an orgy?

The rules are the same as traditional swinging. Just because you see someone you’re attracted to doesn’t just automatically mean they want to play with you.

  • No touching without consent. The fact that someone is there does not automatically mean you get to have sex with them.

  • No means no. Only yes means yes.

  • No sex in the living room. Cuddling and making out are okay; but the living room is a chill-out space.

  • No scat or watersports. Needle play is okay, but no blood play.

  • There’s a private room downstairs. If you want privacy, close the door. If the door is closed, don’t go in.

  • There’s a hard point for suspension bondage in the ceiling downstairs. It’s rated to over 700 pounds. Please don’t suspend anyone anywhere else.

  • Alcohol is okay in moderation.

  • It’s up to you and your partner(s) to decide whether or not to use barriers. We provide lube, condoms, and gloves.

  • Feel free to bring toys. There’s a wide assortment of floggers, crops, and canes, and three violet wands, available for play, but please ask before you use them.

  • Don’t intrude on someone else’s scene without being invited.