What are the universal rules for an orgy?

World & Nature

The rules are the same as traditional swinging. Just because you see someone you’re attracted to doesn’t just automatically mean they want to play with you.

  • No touching without consent. The fact that someone is there does not automatically mean you get to have sex with them.

  • No means no. Only yes means yes.

  • No sex in the living room. Cuddling and making out are okay; but the living room is a chill-out space.

  • No scat or watersports. Needle play is okay, but no blood play.

  • There’s a private room downstairs. If you want privacy, close the door. If the door is closed, don’t go in.

  • There’s a hard point for suspension bondage in the ceiling downstairs. It’s rated to over 700 pounds. Please don’t suspend anyone anywhere else.

  • Alcohol is okay in moderation.

  • It’s up to you and your partner(s) to decide whether or not to use barriers. We provide lube, condoms, and gloves.

  • Feel free to bring toys. There’s a wide assortment of floggers, crops, and canes, and three violet wands, available for play, but please ask before you use them.

  • Don’t intrude on someone else’s scene without being invited.